January: At the Source
1 hour ago
|If you have nothing to read on|
the subway, sleeping seems like
a better option than just staring.
Photo from Asleep on the Subway
|This may be a picture of the|
West Bank Parking Ramp
at the U of MN.
I have known many people like that. Therapy has led me to wonder if my sometimes insufferable behavior (hopefully mostly in my past) might not be the reason for some people to behave this way towards me. But I have a feeling it isn't all my fault. It is hard for me to think that the Vanessa Redgrave version of Mrs. Wilcox would be that way, but the scene in the film (and book) where she leaves Margaret behind at the train station and goes off with Mr. Wilcox and Evie has always depressed me. I know that feeling so well. Lots of excitement to do something fun with a friend only to have circumstances intervene and the friend ditch you for something else...always stings a bit, even if the reason for said ditchment (pronounced ala francaise) is legitimate.
Was Mrs. Wilcox one of the unsatisfactory people -- there are many of them -- who dangle intimacy and then withdraw it? They evoke our interests and affections, and keep the life of the spirit dawdling around them. Then they withdraw. When physical passion is involved, there is a definite name for such behaviour--flirting--and if carried far enough it is punishable by law. But no law--not public opinion even--punishes those who coquette with friendship, though the dull ache that they inflict, the sense of misdirected effort and exhaustion, may be as intolerable.
Paul Cadmus' homage to Forster.
|Forster Monument behind|
St. Nicholas Church
in Stevenage, England.
|This is what came up when I did a Google image search for "west bank parking ramp university of minnesota"|
It is an image from a story in the Minnesota Daily about a Zombie Pub Crawl.
Could this be Helen Schlegel (Helena Bonham-Carter) the Zombie?
|Photo credit: Senate House Library|
University of London
|Lucy loves a fire.|
|Me with bedhead.|
After my post about beverages you may be wondering what is in the mug.
Hot cocoa, with a big "handcrafted" Williams-Sonoma marshmallow.
|Lucy wants to wish you all Happy Holidays!|
|Lucy's best friend Lucy|